About Me

Hi, I’m Sandra — a Gen X mom of three, wife, and chronic pain warrior based in Texas. After years of juggling motherhood, marriage, career expectations, and later, perimenopause and ongoing back pain, I found myself completely overwhelmed by daily life. My home, once a place of comfort, had become another source of stress. I didn’t need more stuff, more pressure, or more “Pinterest-perfect” rooms. I needed peace.

That’s when I discovered the power of simplifying. I started decluttering not just my home, but my habits, routines, and even the way I thought about “success.” I wasn’t chasing perfection anymore — I was creating a sanctuary. A safe, cozy, low-maintenance space that made me feel calm, supported, and emotionally grounded.

I created Ruiz Daily Mix to help other women in midlife do the same. Whether you’re navigating hormonal shifts, chronic pain, burnout, or just the chaos of everyday life, I want you to know: you’re not alone. Through my content, I share practical tips on how to reset your home, reduce clutter, and create systems that make life easier — all while embracing imperfection and finding joy in the everyday.

On this site, you’ll find:

• Real-life home tips that work for busy, burned-out women

• Self-care routines that fit into 10 minutes or less

• Affiliate product recommendations I genuinely love and use

• Supportive and relatable content about navigating midlife with humor and honesty

If you’ve been craving a calmer space — in your home and in your head — you’re in the right place. Let’s create a home that feels like a soft place to land.